Few Moments That Matter

"Life is always a matter for the right moment to act and that few moments matters"

In a life, difficulties are like an unwanted creamy layer in a cup of tea and only those people get succeed who foil the cream and enjoy the tea.

There was a teacher who is the most successful women. One day she was invited as a guest speaker in a school while interacting with children she gave them a small activity of write up 7 wonders in the world to just check the general knowledge of the students. so, everyone started the writing answer quickly. But the small girl Jenny started to write the answer slowly.

When everyone except Jenny had submitted their answer paper, her teacher came and asked Jenny, “What happened Dear?  Don’t worry, Just write what you know as other students have learned about it just a couple of days back”. 

Jenny replied, “I was thinking that there are so many things, which 7 I can pick to write!”   And, then she handed her answer paper to the teacher.  The teacher started reading everyone’s answers and the majority had answered them correctly such as The Great Wall of China, Colosseum, Stonehedge,  Great Pyramid of Giza, Leaning Tower of Pisa, Tajmahal, Hanging Gardens of Babylon etc. The teacher was happy as students had remembered what she had taught them.  At last the teacher picked up Jenny’s answer paper and started reading.

The 7 Wonders are – To be able to See, 

To be able to Hear, 

To be able to Feel, 

To Laugh, 

To Think, 

To Be Kind, 

To Love.

  

The teacher stood stunned and the madam who was invited as guest speaker was speechless. Because today this successful lady realize what she lost precious moments in a grid of achieving her destination. She was successful but not happy because she never enjoyed those few moments that matter in life. A girl from the small village reminded them about the precious gifts that God has given us, which are truly a wonder.

Do you remember that few moments of yours?  

Moments when you wish for someone, a moment when you cry for someone or someone cry for you, a moment when you sleep on your mother's lap, moments when you feel loved, the moment when you bring a smile to someone face, those amazing moments with your friends when you laugh together, that moment when you feel silence, moment you feel broken, moment when you hear the music. 

flashback bring a smile on your face. But in haste of reaching the destination, we forgot to enjoy the journey. we make our life very complicated, demotivated, deepened, unhappy, frustrated and why? sometimes we also don't know. We make our life like we always need certification from others that you can do it. 

Don't wait for destination start finding happiness while you are on the journey. don't postpone your happiness to them. Value what you have, use what you have, trust what you have.  You don’t always have to look away to find inspiration.  God has given you all the strength to reach your goals. Always go with your passions. Never ask yourself if it's realistic or not. Let everything happen to you Beauty and terror keep going at the end very few moments matters not all.

But those moments matter for you teache you, how to live for someone or without someone. ya, it makes difference but not that much. Recovery beings from the darkest moment, live life for the moment because everything is uncertain. Just feel it, enjoy it, live it either it will make you or break you. A choice is yours.

                                                                                                   Otherwise,        

"We're born alone, we live alone, we die alone. Only through our love, affection and  friendship, we can create the illusion for the moment that we're not alone and that few moments matters."

Broken But Beautiful

   " People don't always need advice. sometimes all they really need is a hand to hold, an ear to listen, and heart to understand them".  

Independent plant

There were 2 independent houses separated by a compound wall. In one lived a young techie and in another, an elderly retired man. Both of them planted identical saplings on their respective side of the compound wall. The young guy supplied his plant with a lot of water and high-quality manure. The retired man, however, gave his plant just small quantity of water and little manure.  The techie's sapling grew into a lush green, leafy robust plant. The retired person plant was a near normal but much luxuriant than his neighbours one night there was heavy rain with gusty winds and the next day both come out to see the fate of their plant. To the techie's surprise, his plant had been uprooted whereas his neighbour was unharmed. The techie turned and asked, " why was my plant uprooted by the rain despite such good care whereas yours stayed firm and strong despite just a little care?" . The neighbour answered, " look, young man, you supplied everything the plant would need. In ABUNDANCE since the plant would do not have to do anything on its own to search for what it needed the roots of your plant haven't gone deep down. I was supplying my plant just enough to keep it alive for the rest, the roots had no choice but to go down into the ground to fulfil its needs. Since the roots of your plant were superficial rain and wind could cosily fell it down. Since the root of my plant was deeply grounded it could easily withstand this onslaught of nature.  

Isn't this story similar to your partner? some and over possessive and protective of them to the extent of pampering them. Which make your partner dependent and sometimes it leads to irritation, anger and conflict. 

you were so focused on someone you never had, that you lost someone who was always there for you that's why you are enough to know what is love, before falling for someone. And at the end all the things that hurt you actually teach you.

life brings tears, smiles and memories. The smiles fade, but the memories last forever like a plant of that techie. So just cheers to the people who love us, the losers who lost us, and the lucky bastards who get to meet us.

And don't forget " underdoing make plant die but overdoing make the plant weak".  Even If it happens let it hurt, cry as much as you can, but do not let the sadness go on longer than necessary, please.

RIGHT CHOICE

"Once in a while, we meet people by chance and sometimes, no matter how difficult, we leave them by choice."

Porcupine

This is the story of porcupines when the Ice Age came and porcupines had to find a way to survive.

At first they decided to group together to keep warm and protect one another.

Unfortunately, their spiky quills made it uncomfortable to stay in such close proximity, so they dispersed.

Of course, this left them exposed to the elements and they started to freeze to death until they realized that they needed to make a significant choice.

Stay apart and die, or tolerate and accept their fellow porcupine's thorns and survive.

Wisely, they chose to stay together, knowing that the small wounds that they received from each other were worth it in the end.

We’re porcupines!

We are prickly and so often find a way to offend and take offense to those around us.

Sometimes, it can become so unbearable that we wish we could live in isolation, protected from the barbs of others.

Alas, we are created to be social beings and being left alone only decreases our standard of living.

The next time you are hurt by the prickly nature of one of your fellow porcupines, remember that you have spiked as well and can be just as challenging to live with. Now the choice is yours you want to stay apart and die alone or tolerate and accept your fellow throne which pokes you.

Let’s learn to live with the sharp quills of others and hope and pray that those around us can learn to live with ours. A good day will come because of you deserve them.

'Bitter is choice, grateful is choice. The choice is yours chose well.'

It's better to be unique than best.

"Trusting your individual uniqueness challenges you to lay yourself open".                                                                                  James Broughton

What sets you apart can sometimes feel like a burden and it's not. And a lot of time, it's what makes you great. so it's always better to be unique than best because best make you number one but unique make you only one. 

This is the story of Gauri Sawant, a transgender champion. She said in one interview the mother is a behavior it does not depend upon gender and I am a mother without a uterus. In the history of India king Shikhandi was the transgender king and rule the provinces but now in a modernized India due to stereotype society acceptance of the transgender mother was the perception of reality. 
She file first petition in the supreme court for the transgenders. Take a unique stand for being a third gender mother and now she is known by name of her daughter Gayatri. People call her mother of Gayatri. Just because of her unique quality now lots of children have shelter to survive under the campaign of 'Aaji ka Ghar'.
Always be a what actually you are and what makes you unique. In a race of being best, we lost our identity. But when you find yourself, you will definitely win.Success is not how high you claim it's about how you make a positive difference in society.